Letters

Miss Manners answered a letter today about how to react sympathetically to a Facebook post indicating someone's sad or has sad things going on. Clicking "Like" seems rude or callous. Her reply: "To express sympathy, it is essential to demonstrate that you are thinking about the person." The computer interface is designed to keep time spent on any one thing or one person to a minimum.

So, she says, write a letter. If you care deeply about the person, write a letter.

I have all the letters anyone has sent me since it became incomprehensible to sit down and write one. There are only a handful. Before that, I didn't keep them because I wrote and received so many I didn't realize they were precious - and it never occurred to me that one day they'd be like extinct exotic animals. They're more meaningful than photos even because the person's mind and soul are uniquely present in them.

I still write letters when my heart is very full or when someone else has written me with a full heart. I'm curious: When was the last time you wrote a letter?